Tell her about my fetish

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Tell her about my fetish

I have never spoken to anyone about this before. I have a fetish for girls in inflatable sumo costumes. Those types of costumes that you can blow up and that make you look really big and fat. I don't know why I'm so into it, because I'm not into fat girls at all, but I get super turned on from seeing a skinny girl blow up and be big and fat in a costume like that. I've never told anyone about it because I didn't feel it was needed.

Now I've been in a relationship for about 9 months with a girl, she is tall and skinny herself. Last week she did had a team building day at work. One of the activities was playing sports in inflatable sumo costumes. I can't believe this is happening in my life, I've got a fetish for this super specific thing and my girlfriend just happens to suddenly wear that thing out of nowhere, after I've been fantasising about this thing ever since I was 11 years old. So now she has it at home, and as you can imagine it's the only thing I can think about now. Her in that suit, looking big and fat and blown up, and enjoying it because it's so fun (that's what she said). She sent me pictures and videos that day and I can't stop looking at them.

But now I'm not sure what to do. I haven't told her about my fetish. But now it feels like I really should. I'm afraid she'll think differently of me once I've told her, because having this fetish sometimes makes me feel like a bit of a freak. I don't know how I would tell her either, but I want nothing more right now than for her to put the costume on for me. I'm seeing her tomorrow and I'm also worried that she'll want to show me the costume because she'll want to show me how funny it is. But then I know that I will get super turned on and I'm not sure if I can hide that. Or should I tell her in that moment what I'm actually feeling? It's a very hard and scary thought, that's why I'd like to get someone else's opinion on it.

Smothered by tits

Just be honest about it,if she really loves you she should be willing to accept you for who you are.

And most importantly be confident.  


If your a really good guy and good to Her.
she probably wont care.
she will probably just laugh.
Just don't be creepy about it.

Hanz Popper

You have a good starter for this talk "i found it a bit arousing watching you in a sumo suit". If she loves you, she doesnt mind it.... but dont force her into your fetish.

doctorbo's picture

Best way to put it. I had two exes who were really not into it but one, at one point, kinda liked how much she could get me excited using my fetish.

My girlfriend doesn't like it per say, but acknowledge my taste and like to poke fun at me when we encounter it in movie or the like, which is super cute and healthy ;)

Visit the doctor's office:

doubleintegral's picture

You've got an easy in here... if she puts on the costume then just start putting the moves on her.  Then, whether you have the conversation about it during sex or sometime later, you've got yourself a conversation starter.


I recently bought an inflatable morphsuit and took a shot last night with my wife. I was wearing it in bed when she came upstairs. When she crawled into bed, she asked me what the hell I was wearing. I said it's my outfit to make me your Big Daddy. So when we started kissing I turned on the fan and the suit blew up. She kept saying it was funny and creepy at the same time. We fooled around a bit and when we were done, I just layed in bed as the suit deflated. I figured this would be a one-and-done deal. She asked me if this was a fantasy of mine and I said yes. Well, today while taking her to work, she tells me she had a dream about me wearing the suit. Maybe this will be a start of something. 

bostoncowboy's picture

I can understand your hesitation to such. I have had the issue myself and only recently opened up to my partner about it. I had a couple more fetish bags to open, but she took it all well and asked a few questions and that was the end of that.

Was I bummed she wasn't into it? Sure. But it's better than living with it shoved down.