Advice on leaving the fetish.

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Wed, 08/17/2016 - 03:11

Margeret Moonlught

Note, I'm not leaving the site. I wouldn't do that unless something major happened.

Hello everyone. Got a bit of a 'real' topic here tonight.

So honestly, This fetish has begun to get a little.. Sexually unsatisfying. As in, Actually inflating myself. It just feels weird at this point, And when I come down from my sexual high, I feel loads of regret.
Now I actually tried to outright stop inflating myself about two weeks ago or so, Mainly so I can focus on getting into shape and getting super hot and buff. However I usually find myself giving into the temptation and downing a few sodas or just pumping myself up. Thanks, Procrastination monkey.

In short, While I still like inflation, I'm sort of growing out of liking inflating myself.

So I want some advice. How do I exactly totally get out of inflating myself? Like, It really isn't pleasant anymore. Just.. Uncomfortable. This is a serious thread for me, I want to move on from that phase of my life, So don't really expect that many jokes from me this time around.

With that being said, Thoughts?

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Wed, 08/17/2016 - 04:33

MixMaster (not verified)

Well, this is coming from someone who doesn't actually inflate themselves, but it it is making you unhappy, why keep doing it? You clearly have a conflict of interest going on and I'd be willing to bet that being in a shape other than bloated would be much more fulfilling that pumping yourself up and feeling like shit afterward.

I had to make a choice like that recently myself, which was smoking weed. I liked smoking, but I also wanted to get a better job than working in restaurants for the rest of my life. I kept telling myself, literally for years that, "Eh, things will work out, I'll figure something out to let me continue my habit" Needless to say, things didn't work out. I finally realized though, that the thing that I was doing to help alleviate my stress was actually what was causing a lot of it by preventing me from getting a better job. So, I stopped smoking, waited for my system to get clean so I could pass a drug test, and got a job being an electrician's apprentice, and I am much happier in that regard.

Really though, if "inflating" is still that important to you, might I suggest clothes stuffing or perhaps a latex suit? I know it's probably not at all the same sensation as what you're accustomed to, but it would be a substitue that you may develop a liking for and have an outlet for your inflation fun instead of distending your stomach and making it infinitely more difficult to get into shape.

Just a thought and I hope you manage to sort things out ^_^

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 05:05

Drybonesx

I don't think that's possible, not without leaving everything behind. This site, deleting any inflation art or stories and so forth. In other words, going completely cold turkey. Just stopping to inflate yourself is only part of the equation. You've still leaving around things to tempt you. (Various Inflation materials)

You said you wanted to exercise and get in shape. It's the same thing. You can't do that without getting rid of junk food temptations and having some willpower.

Out of sight out of mind, sadly that would be the only way I can think of.

The second option is, your probably just bored of it. You need to do something to spice it up.

I'm mean.

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 05:10

Lopni

by definition of "fetish"

if it is unpleasant to you - then you've already left it behind, so

CONGRATS ^_^

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 08:27

Another Canadian Guy

Honestly, a lot of times when people say they feel bad, it's like their own self-imposed judgement, like what they're doing is wrong. I felt this way back in my teenage years sometimes because I felt it was a sin (without actually taking the time to read if it was or not). Once I got back into it, I learned and treated that it was who I am and there's nothing wrong with self-pleasure, especially when it doesn't harm another person.

If you feel bad from doing it, then rather than just quitting outright, try to understand why you feel bad. If you don't, then learn to accept it as being perfectly fine and normal. Even if you want to go to the gym and get more healthy, never feel like your fetish is a detriment towards that, unless it directly is.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 08:33

flationable

I'd like to second MixMaster's idea to try inflatable clothing and maybe even padding, there's a couple of YouTube channels that you can take examples from. (Nikki19NY, TayvaRP, all the inflatable suiters like Zaelgolin...)

If anything, once you get buff (now there's a hot fantasy) you can disguise your awesome muscle-itude with some padding/inflatable clothes and 'hulk out' on unsuspecting partners.

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 10:13

hfilled

This is coming froma guy that used to be obese, realized he loved inflation fetish but hated his body...and got his weight under control: Look forward to your new body, kick yourself in the ass and learn to seperate the two.

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 13:48

firnov

Margeret, its just who you are. This feelings is nothing you lurned, but what you always had. Meby it is possible to ebd this feelings. But i dont know if your gonna be really happy about it.

Meby just keep it on fantasizing about it. The real inflation is somthing you can drop off (for ever or not). As the real inflation is a thing that make you feel good, be the biggest possible ;)

Meby a way to stop is to find an other sexual passion or fetish. As you can find fun in a fetish, explore it.

And boom goes the inflatee

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 14:05

InflatedBellyBoss

Okay first thing's first, I understand. I stopped a while back too. It was really hard, but I learned that by setting my mind on something else, I was able to drown it out. Listening to music or even just watching TV can easily distract you from that feeling. In other words, don't think about it, and it won't tempt you. And if that doesn't work, go take a walk or play a video game to physically distract you from it.

Secondly, it's actually Instant Gratification Monkey, not Procrastination Monkey. I got the reference.

Or just ignore me, that's fine.

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 15:37

#10

CobaltSnake

I dunno, whenever I try to inflate, it just ends up REALLY anti-climactic. So, maybe I'm a little biased on this one, but you should just do what you want! It's not like the inflation godess is gonna pop you if you don't devote yourself to the cause of sticking a pump up ya butt.

I think I've had too much...

Wed, 08/17/2016 - 21:45

#11

airtankgirl5

I will be uncharacteristically brief:

1. If it's actually a fetish (as opposed to a kink) you don't get rid of it. Its wired into your sexuality. You don't get out of being hetero, or gay, or whatever.

2. If you are not enjoying it, then absolutely find something else you enjoy.

3. There may be a new direction to go in. Don't like actually inflating yourself in RL, no big deal, there are plenty of other outlets.

4. I don't really understand how inflation keeps you from being fit. Inflation usually happens at home. Fit usually happens at the gym. I spend a lot of time in the gym or on the track. One does not preclude the other.

Good luck.

Thu, 08/18/2016 - 00:41

#12

free6skul

i understand you regret it after. i always feel weak after orgasm and kind of unsatisfy. but actually im too much obsessed with this fetish, its like a drug . if i could tranfer some of my excitation to you i will.

Thu, 08/18/2016 - 02:39

#13

Margeret Moonlught

Guys, Thanks for all the advice. Means a lot to me. This fetish is always gonna be a part of me, But y'know I've got other outlets for it that are better for my health. I'll live.

Really though, Thanks, All of you. <3

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Thu, 08/18/2016 - 09:02

#14

Another Canadian Guy

If I can also suggest something, have you tried not orgasming and just enjoying it? Pleasure isn't supposed to be a race to the end, it's pleasure is pleasing. You're supposed to enjoy a fetish for how it makes you feel, not as a boost to orgasm. Learn to enjoy the feelings it evokes and don't combine a fetish with an orgasm. Just enjoy pleasure for the sake of pleasure.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Thu, 08/18/2016 - 09:09

#15

Another Canadian Guy

They teach men for the prostate orgasm (the orgasm that's in multiples and is reportedly 10X stronger than traditional sex) that when things give you pleasure, you need to learn to enjoy it for what it is. Too often we feel we need to relieve sexual tension but that's something pretty much everyone self-learned. As stated above, pleasure is pleasing and arousal should be arousing. Not as a rush to a finish but as it's own form of euphoria. If something makes you feel good, relax and bask in it, don't try to orgasm from it.

(Not on here too often, replies might be slow.)

Thu, 08/18/2016 - 11:23

#16

Blue_Eyes

Stop doing it?

Those of you who volunteered to be injected with praying mantis DNA, I've got some good news and some bad news. Bad news is we're postponing those tests indefinitely. Good news is we've got a much better test for you: fighting an army of mantis men.

Fri, 08/19/2016 - 02:06

(Reply to #16) #17

Margeret Moonlught

Tbh this is solid advice. Bit harder than that, Brain stuff, But it's what I'm doin'.

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Sat, 08/20/2016 - 08:10

#18

t_boning

New member, long-time lurker--signed up to give you my thoughts.

Sounds like you get that feeling of "regret" after post-orgasm because your means of inflating/bloating yourself directly conflicts with your life-goal of getting fit and in-shape. There's an easy fix for this: find healthier methods to inflate. If oral bloating is your preferred method, give up the sugar/aspartane-rich sodas that add unnecessary calories to your diet and swap in for a homemade saline solution (water+salt), or seltzer if carbonation is part of the enjoyable experience for you.

Or, I'd suggest transitioning to primarily anal inflation--much more effective on maintaining a healthy caloric intake. I'm a fairly fit guy myself, and I love witnessing and experiencing the transformation of my flat stomach into a huge water-balloon by means of a 4-6 quart enema. Then, I also get to enjoy the relatively quick release, returning to the body that I've dedicated hours and effort to achieving. So, maybe this fetish can actually be a means of motivation for you :)

(If it helps, here's a pic from a before/after session earlier this year: http://i.imgur.com/WXiarLk.png)

Sun, 08/21/2016 - 11:21

(Reply to #18) #19

Margeret Moonlught

I'm touched that my 'dilemma' made lurkers come out lmao

Thanks for the advice, Bud. Maybe I'll find a middle ground, Who knows.

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Sun, 08/21/2016 - 17:03

(Reply to #19) #20

airtankgirl5

Its the "Chick factor".

Mon, 08/22/2016 - 11:02

(Reply to #20) #21

Margeret Moonlught

Well I'm honestly not too sure if that counts as a good thing or not, But I'll take it lmao

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