to start I want You to look up a song by "Lily Alin" entitled "22"
when a woman chooses a man She could do a lot worse than You!
so what if You have a fantasy about blowing Her up.
its just a fantasy You would never harm her
that makes You better than a lot of men!
maybe have Her play dress up once in a while to look inflated
that's almost normal
the only strange fetish is not to have one.
I'm not saying this fetish is gods gift to woman just that its not a bad thing
now for some things that would make You bad for a woman
# being a wife beater
# being a alcoholic
# drug add