How do you feel about your inflation fetish?

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Thu, 12/13/2012 - 01:37

#52

nineteenthly

I feel sad about the last two comments. I can understand the "once bitten, twice shy" reaction but i think people sometimes have to be bold to achieve happiness and intimacy. As for the second, it might continue precisely because you don't like it. It's a fact of life, i think - i get aroused in spite of myself when i encounter situations which remind me of this and i think we need to acknowledge that it's there rather than letting it make us unhappy. It's like my button phobia - it makes life inconvenient but it's part of me and i wouldn't want to be without it.

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Thu, 12/13/2012 - 12:20

(Reply to #49) #53

slayer

It can sadly also backfire. I mentioned it to my ex-wife, she agreed to try it and we did a few times with her in a suit. Then after a while she said she didn't like it, and we stopped doing it.

As the years passed on I found out she had problems, she got easy mad, got drunk and became all crazy. And when she got mad and drunk "everything in the whole world" was bad, and she blamed everyone and me for all of her problems. This resulted her in telling her friends and my family about my inflation fetish and calling me a sick pervert. Even though she had promised not to say anything to anyone. Pretty embarassing! But luckily her friends were not my friends and my friends didn't know her friends. That's how she liked it I found out, cause she thought all my friends made fun of her (psycho woman).

So even if you love and think you can trust the person you tell this, live with this person at least for a couple of years to find how how he / she truly is.

Hi my name is Tom. I run the inflatable chicks yahoo group

Fri, 12/14/2012 - 02:03

#54

nineteenthly

Sorry to hear that, sounds very embarrassing. I would've found that unbearable a few years ago. Now though, i think the answer to that is to be open about it, not in the sense of being "in your face" about it, but not to be ashamed and to try to let people know that it exists. If people were generally more familiar with the idea, they might not react the way your ex managed to exploit. The problem, of course, is that it's not the kind of subject that comes up in everyday conversation with strangers in real life and it would cross a weird boundary if someone brought it up out of the blue. That's what i think the main problem is.

My approach, of course, is to "leave the door ajar" by doing things like speaking directly to camera on YouTube and using the same username here as i use elsewhere. That means that some people will come across me in both "halves" of my life, sometimes by chance and sometimes if they get curious and Google me. I sometimes feel it shouldn't be up to me to be even this brazen about it because the rest of you might prefer it to be more hidden and this bothers my conscience sometimes, but one reason i do it is to make the kind of thing you had to go through less likely.

http://www.youtube.com/user/nineteenthly

Sun, 12/23/2012 - 11:35

#55

Pneumatic Fanatic

A couple things...... first, EVERYBODY, inflationist or not, is worried about some part of their personality that they dont want anybody else to find out about. There are a lot more things a lot worse than inflating, such as crooks, politicians taking advantage of people (same thing), etc. But inflation is a good thing, more on that in a minute. Second, it has been proven that as people get older they are happier, and I agree. This also means Im more comfortable about my interest. Now I dont go around telling everybody. In fact Im more careful than ever, because generally society is getting more uptight, but Im looking for the right girl to tell and Im not too worried if it doesnt work perfectly next time. I think you have to pick the right moment, and sometimes that moment comes up unexpectedly. Opportunity never occurs at a convenient time. :) So after you have known each other for a while, and after she has brought up an odd subject about herself, might be a good time.

Now about inflating in general, I think its a good thing. For a while I wondered if there was anybody else into this. Then I figured there had to be, but where, are there any females, and how do I meet them. Then Internet took off, but still didnt give me a clear path to what I was looking for but did show that this was the right direction. Then I found bodyinflation.org! :) And life has been great ever since. No, just kidding, but it looks like a good place to talk to people.

But getting back to the original question, I think its a good thing. Its a little difficult sometimes, but it might be more difficult fighting it or just being like everybody else. Id much rather be this way. I feel fortunate I have this interest and want to enjoy it with the right person. I have other non mainstream interests and it all seems to fit together.

Wed, 12/26/2012 - 19:24

#56

HeavyMetalBlood (not verified)

I have had this fetish for as long as I can remember and yet I have never told anyone about it outside of a few close friends. My friends who do know about my weird tastes only know because I knew they were open minded enough to not freak out, and I think I even managed to indirectly sway one friend over to this fetish ironically XD

I never told most of my friends and family about my fetishes, and not because of shame and embarrassment, but because its none of their damn buisness to know about my personal fantasies.

Everyone's got their skeletons is how I look at this thing, and I do feel that some things should be shared with someone you love and trust. I'm sure I will meet a girl someday who likes my fetish, she'll probably think it's cute and indulge in it with me :3

Thu, 12/27/2012 - 22:37

#57

zuul

I love my fetish but I have not been able to tell anyone else about it yet. My roommate is my best friend and knows every intimate detail of my life except for this. I have only hidden it from her because she dumped her boyfriend in part because of his inflation fetish. And I'm not going to tell him because then he'll want to date me and that's just not gonna happen. But that's another story...

It's really a shame because my roomie has a lot of her own weird kinks and I think she would like inflation if she gave it a chance. Instead I have to live my fetish by myself because I am worried of what she would think of me.

Also... I dunno about anyone else but every now and then i get really bummed because this fetish isn't real.

"Tell him about the twinkie."

Fri, 12/28/2012 - 06:34

(Reply to #57) #58

Auriga

Interesting, taking into account that you want to RP girl on girl ^^

Fri, 07/19/2013 - 21:19

#59

namurts

yes

Tue, 07/23/2013 - 23:30

#60

Kadche

I used to be just... Really embarrassed by it. I remember having this fascination with huge bellies and being inflated really early on. I thought it was just me and there was something kind of wrong with me all the way up till I hit highschool (getting busted stuffing my clothes and being laughed at for days by family REALLY doesn't help a teenager). Didn't realize that there was actually an online community full of people like me untill I stumbled across an inflation RP group in a game I had started playing out of boredom. Then I found artwork and stories and this place... It made me feel a little less terrible about the whole 'wanting to be a balloon' thing. I mean, I know it's strange, but it's not so strange that I'm completely terrified that there's something wrong with me. The nice thing? I wound up engaged to someone who is perfectly fine with my odd little fetish, which is like... The ONLY thing I really ever keep from anyone. Literally this is my deep, dark secret... I just really don't feel terrible about it now. Guess I have everybody on this site and my fiance to thank for that. :)

How do you feel about your inflation fetish?

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