I usuallty whine when my stories don't get feedback and when I do people say usual bullshit about "Don't care about people, write for yourself, do what you enjoy most". These words are so overused, it makes such consollation irritating, and almost offensive. Because, of course I've heard that many times.
But it is not just overused. It's wrong.
When you (author) have a good imagination and a particular kinky fantasy, you can do two things.
1. Imagine it for yourself in the bathroom.