I know there have been countless threads about this, but finally I am in the situation of having a girlfriend and wanting to mention my fetish.
I did mention it to her when we were in bed, but she didn't react too well, she said 'well thats not possible'. I explained it was just a fantasy of the mind, it was harmless, some fetishists even have the support of their girlfriends... using inflatable under clothing etc.
anyway. she dismissed it out of hand, though wasn't 'freked out'. I love her, but her lack of understanding of my fetish dismays me. has anyone experienced anything similar?