So, I'm a lesbian, currently in a relationship, and revealing that I have this fetish turned out surprisingly well, though the revelation itself took three hours and many prying questions.
My partner's been alarmingly indulgent, but she's been asking questions about what I'd like her to do in regards to it and I'm pretty well shell-shocked about discussing it in the first place, let alone figuring out what I'd like her to do to me.
So why am I discussing it on a gigantoforum?