Something I've noticed over the past several years of browsing these sites, it seems like the community at large is terrified of anyone finding out about this fetish as a whole; and especially anyone finding out that they, as an individual, have this fetish. It's really bothered me for a long time, as I just keep wondering why?
Why is everyone so afraid of people finding out about this fetish?
Now, obviously you don't need to tell your family or friends that you have it, granted.